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How Do I Get My 5 Year Old To Behave At School?

Written on February 28, 2010 – 4:37 pm by admin

My son is 5, and as most are, very energetic. He gets plenty of walks and exercise.
At home, my husband and I find we have to stick to a firm routine, nothing nasty, just making sure he sits to finish his dinner, picks up toys etc and we have a “removal of toys” policy for naughty behaviour. We still give him plenty of cuddles, have a routine of breakfast, get ready, school, he goes to school dinners, bring him home, dinner, read his school book, talk about his school day etc. If he has been very bad, he gets an early night. At the weekends, we go for walks and let him loose on the hills and beach etc, visit nannas and such like. He gets time to play with toys by himself, as I believe it is important that children have time to learn to enjoy their own company as well as that of parents or friends.
At the minute, we are being told by school that he is not concentrating and is disrupting class by acting the class clown and not sitting still.
At home he behaves because we make sure of it, but I am aware that the teacher does not have the luxury of being able to concentrate on him. When this all kicked off, we took away his toys, implemented a reward chart, and when even then things did not get better, we have banned him from watching TV (he watches 2 cartoons a night). At home he seems full of remorse and promises to be good, but we are lucky if he behaves twice a week at school despite this.
We praise him if he does behave, telling him how proud we are etc.
I am at my wits end, can you help? How can we discipline him when we am not with him? Why is the routine at home not sinking in, so that he will follow it as school? I have told him time and time again the importance of listening to the teacher and enforced any discipline I have threatened if he does not. I have even tried telling him that if he behaves for so many days he will get to watch a favourite dvd, or have some of his toys back etc. I fully admit that he does not concentrate well, I even tried those chewable omega tablets, but they do not seem to have any effect on him!
Can anyone give me any tips for him? I realise his routine at home may sound regimented at home, but he is a very happy boy at home, and we feel he needs this routine to set a president.